Before the trial Court, on behalf of the appellant, PWs 1 to 4 were examined, and he filed Exs.P-1 to P-5. On behalf of the 1st respondent RWs 1 to 3 were examined, and Exs.R-1 and R-2 were filed. The trial Court recorded a finding to the effect that the 1st respondent is earning a sum of Rs.15,000/- per month, as an employee, and the child has been admitted to a reputed school. The mother of the 1st respondent is supporting her. When the trial Court made an attempt to ensure that the child spends time with the appellant, the same did not fructify, since the child was not only reluctant, but also raised cries. Same situation prevailed before us also. Any attempt to compel the child to be with the appellant is likely to have serious impact upon her. For all practical purposes, the appellant is a stranger to the child, as of now. Added to that, the child is finding the appellant to be the opponent of her mother. At this stage, where the child cannot be expected to have any discretion or independent thinking, it is not at all safe to provide any access for the appellant, to be with the child. The appellant can make his effort after the child becomes 10 years of age.