birth of the child, she began to quarrel with him unnecessarily. Though he adjusted for the sake of the family, she was not in an amenable condition to understand the peace-loving nature of the appellant and she became hard and arrogant day by day. On 26.8.2000, when he tried to take the child, she restrained him from taking the child and when he took the child, she quarrelled with him and left the home on 27.8.2000. Though he tried to pacify her and get her back, she was not amenable for the same. On 10.2.2001, he went to the house of the respondent along with his parents, but her parents told them that they will not send her back. He then sent a lawyer notice on 24.5.2001, asking her to come back to her matrimonial home. She sent an evasive reply. Since she did not come, he filed O.P.No.256/2001 on the file of the Family Court, Kottayam at Ettumanur, for restitution of conjugal rights.