solemnized on 27.10.1985 at Ooranipatti Street, Subramaniya Swamy Temple as per Hindu Rights and Customs. The petitioner was working in Ramanad District Court. Both the petitioner and the respondent are residing at Madurai. After few months, the respondent's family members demanded the salary of the petitioner and the same was settled by the petitioner. The respondent went along with her mother and her pregnancy was not even brought to the notice of the petitioner. Thereafter, a male child born to the petitioner and the respondent. When he went to saw the child, they insulted the petitioner and again at the time of birth of second child also, the respondent and her family members insulted him. Thereafter, the respondent left the matrimonial house. The respondent without permission of the petitioner aborted the third child. The petitioner is residing along with their son and the respondent is residing along with their daughter. While so, the respondent lodged a complaint before the District Legal Services Authority, Virudhunagar and the matter was compromised between the parties and then both the parties were living together till 15.09.2000. Thereafter, the respondent neglected the petitioner and left from the matrimonial home without any valid reasons. Already the respondent filed a petition for maintenance in M.C.No.8 of 2001, before the Judicial Magistrate No.II, Srivilliputhur and the petitioner also has been paid