5.But this Court is unable to agree with the submission made by the learned counsel appearing for the appellant. The reason being that after the marriage was solemnised on 16.02.1998, they were blessed with a female child on 16.09.1999 and a male child on 28.08.2001 and they were living separately from 2001 till now. When the parties are not living together for the past 19 long years from 08.05.2001 and there was a direct allegation against the appellant wife that after leaving the matrimonial home with her second child, she has not visited the matrimonial home and the appellant has not even taken any effort for reunion by filing petition under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 seeking restitution of conjugal rights, the findings of the Courts below in dissolving the marriage cannot be found fault with since the appellant wife had deliberately deserted the matrimonial home long back. Secondly, when there was a criminal complaint filed before All Women Police Station, Tiruppur on 14.05.2001, she has not even come back and therefore, the police took up the case for enquiry and found false and closed the same. Thirdly, when the respondent's mother died due to cancer, unfortunately, neither the appellant nor the parents of the appellant attended the death ceremony, for which, no reasons have been assigned on the side of the appellant, who has simply stated that she was unaware of the treatment taken by the respondent's mother in the Adayar Hospital, Chennai. Moreover, the reason assigned by the appellant that the death was not informed to them cannot be taken as an acceptable reason for not attending the death ceremony of her mother in law. Fourthly, when she filed an application before the Judicial Magistrate seeking monthly maintenance for her and her two children and she has also filed a suit for partition of the property, it is not known why she has not filed a petition under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 seeking restitution of conjugal rights. Such conduct vividly shows that she was not interested in restitution or re-union. Appreciating these facts,