together with the parents of the appellant in a rented house. But, soon the respondent began to show her bad behaviour. She refused to wash or iron the clothes of the appellant. She even refused to cook food for him and hence he was compelled to depend on hotel food on several days. She never consulted him on matters concerning the family. She had treated him as a stranger and was not willing to share the bed with him. She used to sleep along with the child in a separate room. When the child attained the age of 4, she was admitted to school. Whenever her school remained closed, the respondent used to shift her residence along with the child to her own house. While so, the respondent left for her house with the child on 14.4.2000, a day of Vishu and, thereafter, did not return. The appellant went to her house for bringing her back. But, without showing any affection towards him, he was humiliated and sent back. The respondent got appointment as a teacher at Karuvarakundu U.P. School in June, 2000. Then the education of the child was also shifted to that school by the respondent. Even though the appellant attempted to solve the problem through the Family Court Counselling Centre, Kozhikode, the respondent made it clear that she was not willing to continue her marital relationship with the appellant. The respondent had failed to perform her