child was born on 1.9.1978. It is pleaded that subsequent to the second delivery, the respondent started behaving cruelly towards the petitioner, spoiling the peaceful domestic atmosphere, that she maintained illegal connection with strangers in the absence of the petitioner, that she treated the petitioner with contempt and made use of all opportunities to ridicule him before his friends and relatives, that she failed to discharge the obligations of marriage and look after the affairs of the petitioner and the children and that by the end of 1980, the respondent left the house of the petitioner with the female child and continued her illegal connection with strangers. Thereafter, the respondent filed M.C. No.42 of 1981 before the Judicial First Class Magistrate's Court, Cherthala claiming maintenance for herself and the female child. The said petition was allowed by the learned Magistrate. The daughter was given in marriage by the respondent on 13.4.1998 without informing the petitioner. It is also alleged that it is impossible for the petitioner to have a life with the respondent under any circumstances. The petitioner also suspects that his life itself would be in danger in case he happened to live with the respondent.