38. Before parting, we wish to touch upon an issue which needs to be discussed in the interest of victims of the matrimonial disputes. Though in this case, we have recorded a finding that by her conduct, the respondent wife has caused mental cruelty to the appellant husband, we may not be understood, however, to have said that the fault lies only with the respondent wife. In matrimonial disputes there is hardly any case where one spouse is entirely at fault. But, then, before the dispute assumes alarming proportions, someone must make efforts to make parties see reason. In this case, if at the earliest stage, before the respondent wife filed the complaint making indecent allegations against her mother-in-law, she were to be counselled by an independent and sensible elder or if the parties were sent to a mediation centre or if they had access to a pre-litigation clinic, perhaps the bitterness would not have escalated. Things would not have come to such a pass if, at the earliest, somebody had mediated between the two. It is possible that the respondent wife was desperate to save the marriage. Perhaps, in desperation, she lost balance and went on filing complaints. It is possible that she was misguided. Perhaps, the appellant husband should have forgiven her indiscretion in filing complaints in the larger interest of matrimony. But, the way the respondent wife approached the problem was wrong. It portrays a vindictive mind. She caused extreme mental cruelty to the appellant husband. Now the marriage is beyond repair.”
