9.As observed by the Hon'ble Apex Court in the
case of Savitri Pandey Vs. Prem Chandra Pandey, 2002 AIR
(SCW) 182, the cruelty has not been defined under the Act
but in relation to matrimonial matters it is contemplated
as a conduct of such type which endangers the living of
the petitioner with the respondent. Cruelty consists of
acts which are dangerous to life, limb or health. Cruelty
for the purpose of the Act means where on spouse has so
treated the other and manifested such feelings towards
her or him as to have inflicted bodily injury, or to have
caused reasonable apprehension or bodily injury,
suffering or to have injured health. Cruelty may be
physical or mental. Mental cruelty is the conduct of
other spouse which causes mental suffering or fear to the
matrimonial life of the other. “Cruelty”, therefore,
postulates a treatment of the petitioner with such
cruelty as to cause a reasonable apprehension in his or
her mind that it would be harmful or injurious for the
petitioner to live with the other party. Cruelty,
however, has to be distinguished from the ordinary wear
and tear of family life. It cannot be decided on the
basis of the sensitivity of the petitioner and has to be
adjudged on the basis of the course of conduct which
would, in general be dangerous for a spouse to live with